It is with heavy hearts we announce the passing of Betty May Wakeford
on November 2, 2023 at the Oilfields Hospital in Diamond Valley, AB at
the age of 89 years old.
Betty is survived by her two daughters Dorothy Lenz and Kathleen
Wakeford both of Black Diamond and treasured granddaughter Chelsy
Lenz of Kelowna, BC. Also survived by sisters-in-laws Winnie Peckham,
Melba Howard, Audrey Cawthorne, brother-in-law Dale Wakeford as
well as numerous nieces & nephews. She was predeceased by her
husband of 69 years Doug Wakeford, son-in-law Wilf Lenz, brother
Clifford Emery, brother-in-laws Faye Wakeford, Hugh Cawthorne, Bus
Peckham & Don Howard, sister-in-laws Anne, Elizabeth & Marion.
Betty was born in the High River Hospital on May 23, 1934 and went
to the Big Rock school in Okotoks, making her way there on horseback
for many years. Betty was a hard worker starting an early career at
the High River Hospital when she was young. It was in a restaurant in
High River that she met Doug and from there started their adventures
together. It was surprizing they never met sooner as Betty was a
frequent visitor at Doug’s family farm. It was meant to be!!!
Doug & Betty were married on January 8, 1954 in Okotoks with their
first born, Dorothy arriving later that year. Kathleen followed 4 years
later. Their family was complete.
Betty continued her career at the original Turner Valley Hospital as a
Ward Aid until her and Doug purchased Ed’s transport in 1964 where
Betty kept books for Doug. After the sale of the business in 1976, Betty
went back to the Turner Valley Hospital where she wore many hats -
working in the kitchen, housekeeping, & the laundry. She was never
idle, always helping out with her daughter’s functions as well as trying
to keep track of Doug!!! She moved to the new Oilfields Hospital in her
role as housekeeper until her retirement in 1991.
Betty was active in her community as well, long time member of the
Turner Valley Anglican Church helping out with turkey dinners, teas and
wherever else she could lend a hand. She was also a life-time member
of the Ladies Auxiliary #78 Turner Valley Legion where she served as their
Chaplain for many years. Betty also joined the Griffiths Centre in Black
Diamond where she enjoyed Floor Curling.
Doug & Betty’s granddaughter Chelsy, brought them both so much
joy. Chelsy saw her first parade with Granny sporting a cowboy hat,
cowboy boots, jeans & a western shirt!!! They loved spoiling her.
Betty was a true caregiver in every sense of the word. Her family was
always her top priority. There were many, many Christmas gatherings
at the Wakefords over the years. It was Betty’s favourite time of year,
providing lots of food, drinks & laughter. She will be missed by many.
Betty’s health declined in later years & she moved to the Tudor Manor
in Okotoks in 2020. The staff loved her there, she was a bright light
bringing them lots of laughs and making sure things were kept in good
shape!! She loved her chocolate Wagon Wheels. Doug & Kathy ensured
she got them as a treat on their many visits to see her.
The family wishes to extend their great appreciation to the Staff at
Tudor Manor especially the nurses & aides in Nottingham. Also many
thanks to Doctor Ray and the kindness shown to them from all the staff
at Oilfields Hospital.
God Speed Mom, you and dad are now together again.
Friends & family are invited to donate to the Alzheimer’s Society or
The Brenda Strafford Foundation in Betty’s memory.
